1 John 4:20
Memory Verse
If someone says that he loves God and he is indifferent to his brother, he is a liar. For the one not loving his brother, whom he can discern, how does he have the inherent ability to love the God whom he cannot discern?—1 John 4:20.
The brother of a Christian is another grace believer. Christ’s commandment to the Church is to love others of the same kind—fellow believers—as He has loved us, John 13:34. If someone actually loves God, that person will guard His words and thereby live a life based on His commandments. There are no law-based commandments for the grace believer; instead, we abide by those pertaining to grace: believe on His Son; love one another as I have loved you; abide in Christ.
Although many translations use the word “hate” in this passage, the modern use of the word for hate carries the meaning of vehement dislike, detestation, or enmity towards another person. However, in Greek, this word indicates a lack of concern and emotional detachment. One who is indifferent does not concern themselves about another, but will use that person when it suits them for their benefit.
The type of love that we express towards other believers is an aspect of the fruit of the Spirit. Therefore, this love seeks the best for the one loved. When we love God, in seeking the best for Him, we adhere to His Word. We cannot offer God anything, for He needs nothing from us. Rather, our love for Him results in obedience that seeks the best for other saints and even a willingness to sacrifice for their well-being. This is true love, when a man is willing to lay down his life for a fellow believer: not dying for them, but living a life that seeks the best for other Christians. This is a lifestyle that seeks to share life with other saints, joins in weekly fellowship whenever possible, and participates in the lives of others.