Standing Before (προΐστημι)
Often translated as “rule,” “administration” comes from a word meaning, “to stand before”, and is used concerning those in a leading position. This is not the type of ‘ruling’ where a person is the final word on all matters, such as the Gentiles lord against others, having great authority over them (Matthew 20:25). “Standing before” involves protection and guidance, not ruling in an authoritative manner.
Those who have the Spiritual gift of administration are to lead with diligence (Romans 12:8). Within the assembly, we should recognize the labor of those in a leadership position (1 Thessalonians 5:12). Neither of these activities exercises lordship over others. The one with the Spiritual gift of administration will naturally take a leadership role in organizing and managing when fellowshipping and showing love towards other saints. Within the local assembly there can be lead positions other than the Pastor and Deacons. These types of positions would relate to teaching and the managing daily tasks or events for the church, under the authority of the Pastor and Deacons.
“Ruling” is not the same as being the master or head of the household. The father is the head of the household, but the wife is the master (despot 1 Timothy 5:14). As the head of the family, the father is responsible for knowing and following the desirous will of God for them (Ephesians 5:28-33). The wife manages the household, while the husband, as the head, provides guidance relating to God’s will, with the wife overseeing daily operations. Therefore, the wife is placed into a proper position with the husband. As the head of the household, he brings her alongside to manage with him, not under him. She is a helpmeet, not a servant.
The man who holds the position of a pastor is to rule (administer) his household properly (1 Timothy 3:4-5). In the same way, the men who hold the position of a Deacon are to administer their households (1 Timothy 3:12). This “ruling” involves organizing and managing the household so that things are done in a proper manner. Within the position of a Pastor, one of the aspects of shepherding is taking on a lead position. The Pastors who lead well are to be counted worthy of double honor, which refers to material support for their efforts (1 Timothy 5:17). The position of a Pastor is not meant to be one of lording over others, or in more modern language, acting like a CEO (1 Peter 5:3). Christ is the head of the Church, not the Pastor.
When it comes to the individual Christian, each one has a role in ruling or administering within the assembly. We are to be careful to rule (administer) over our own proper works (Titus 3:8), which are to meet the needs of the saints (Titus 3:12).
Therefore, those who are in a position of authority should administer their position properly, being careful to maintain proper works and organization, so the needs of the saints are met, never abusing their authority over those who submit to their leadership. Instead, they are to guide, admonish, and care for them so that all things are done in a proper way to the glory of God.